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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Merry Christmas is a Wonderful Phrase


Growing up, my family was fortunate not to have to fight airport crowds and travel much over the holiday season. There are two reasons why I've decided flying at the holidays isn't so much fun: first, the crowds and second, the weather! Winter has finally arrived, and today I was driven from Valparaiso, IN to the Chicago O'Hare airport while the snow began to fall...then I waited two extra hours to fly into Madison, WI. Now you may be rationally wondering...who the heck flies INTO the blizzard/bad weather?!? Well, as it sometimes feels, a person like me who is a slave to her travel schedule does. So I found myself sitting around in O'Hare contemplating on the joys of traveling at the holidays. Since I took off from Springfield last weekend, I've been lucky enough to fly in and out of airports that are festively decorated with Christmas trees and where everyone's favorite Christmas songs are playing constantly. This makes holiday travel (when I'm still away from my family) a little more bearable. Not to mention, it makes me feel so blessed to live in a Christian nation where places like airports will recognize the birth of Christ and celebrate it publicly without resorting to the P.C. phrase of "Happy Holidays." We are so blessed to be able to worship Christ freely without fear of what others may think or do. So Merry Christmas to all of you...hope you're safe and warm at home with your loved ones...can't wait to be with mine! xoxo

Monday, November 30, 2009

"Making myself strong"

Each week, we get an e-newsletter for work with a collection of food for thought. Today's quote has really come at a good time. It read, "We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same." (Carlos Castaneda)Sometimes being on the road is tough. It's tough when it's cold out, or when my schedule changes on a daily basis, or when I just want to be around my friends and family, but find myself all alone. I'll admit that a weakness of mine can be to "wallow" and turn my back on my normally optimistic ways. It's like how being sick away from home is harder...so's being optimistic away from home. However, it takes just as much energy (if not more) to make myself miserable than it does to suck it up, count my blessings, and be strong. This job is an incredible learning experience. I have opportunities to develop both personally and professionally, and I have a support staff of people who care not only about deadlines, but about what I'm learning about myself "on the job." That's not necessarily a setting that could be duplicated in another work environment. Sometimes I need little reminders to bring my A Game every day despite what I might feel are minor setbacks. Today, God sent me one of those reminders in the form of a quote. What an amazing Heavenly Father we have. Love and miss you all...xoxo

Sunday, November 8, 2009

What a Beautiful Morning to Praise the Lord


"So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God" (1 Corinthians: 31)

For the first time since I've been on the road, I am going to church this morning! I am overjoyed with an opportunity to worship next to not only my sisters, but fellow believers. I have really been able to see this year, that while my faith does not depend on a Sunday morning service, it is surely strengthened and supported by the presence of other believers. We've had BEAUTIFUL weather down here in College Station, as I hear y'all (hehe) are having up "north" in Missouri. The sun has been shining, the temps have been warm, and I have been surrounded by an incredible group of women who outwardly live their lives for the Lord. What a refreshing breath of clean air! Love & miss you all...have a wonderful Sunday, xoxo

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Good thing I bought those Uggs...



I had been so fortunate to avoid crazy weather on my travels! Both in Wyoming and Montana, it was beautiful during my visit and then began snowing shortly after my departure. However, I couldn't escape winter forever...and late last night, I arrived in the North Pole, aka Denver, CO! Luckily, the plane was not delayed, and landing was not a problem, but there is literally 3 feet of snow on the ground here at Colorado State in Fort Collins. Thank goodness I bought those Uggs a few weeks back, they are DEFINITELY coming in handy! I am looking forward to sunny Charleston, SC Sunday for an extension presentation. Please keep our team in your thoughts and prayers as we compete to colonize a new chapter at the College of Charleston. Just a few more weeks before I get to be at home with family and friends for Thanksgiving! For now...maybe I'll go make some snow ANGELS o:-) Love & miss you all...xoxo

Sunday, October 25, 2009

History in the Making


Sorry it's been so long since I've written...while I thought I'd have a bit more "free" time in the evenings for the past 3 weeks, I was sadly mistaken! Instead, I've been making history, by helping recruit and colonize the newest class of angels at the brand new OH Kappa chapter, Pi Beta Phi's 134th chapter! The experience was nothing that I could have expected, but an amazing accomplishment. With only 4 days to advertise/recruit on campus (much shorter than normal), the three of us (Resident Stephanie plus visitors Sarah & me) were in full-on recruitment mode. "Divide and conquer" was our motto, and the marketing classes I took in college paid off as we utilized every outlet we possible could: Facebook messaging, tabling in the student union, flyers, a radio advertisement, Facebook banner ads, etc. After a week of exhausting efforts, and lugging boxes and marketing materials back and forth from campus to Melrose Place (what we so lovingly call Stephanie's home for the year), Bid Day was a sight for sore eyes! We were proud to welcome home 56 new angels on Thursday! I cannot wait to be back in Cincinnati for Installation in January.

With the colonizing process behind me, it's back to traveling until Thanksgiving. I'm up in the windy city...but, the fall weather is SO beautiful! Being at Northwestern is a bit bittersweet for me. 5 years ago, it was my dream school. A true reach, in a city I have a love for. However, for no distinct reason (maybe I ruled out bitter cold windy winters or hundreds of thousands in loans), I never even applied. Being here now, and seeing how much I love it and would have fit in, makes me a little sad I'll never even know if I could have gotten in. However...so many things (and people ;-)) in my life would be different if I had taken a different path. I know and trust that everything happens for a reason, and one of the perks of my job is that I get a little taste of so many different campuses. Another perk of my travelin' life...love & miss you all~

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

On the Road Again...


I'm back to traveling, and have had a lovely stay at Purdue University in West Lafayette, IN. Purdue is the 3rd largest Greek system in the nation, so it has been quite an educational experience. Fall weather is here...and for now, I'm happy to pull out my sweaters, scarves, and tights! (but don't ask me my thoughts in a few months!) Leaving home, aka leaving Weston, was much tougher this time around after spending a week at home with him. It was a great week to see family and friends, but it FLEW by! I am no longer doing recruitment visits, but am now focused more on routine visits. What this means is I have a LOT more meetings throughout the day, but more free time and "me" time in the evenings, which is nice. Tomorrow evening, I will take off for Cincinnati though, and for the next few weeks it will be madness as we colonize the OH Kappa chapter of Pi Beta Phi! History in the making...miss & love you all~

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

"The world is a book, and those who don't travel read only one page." (Saint Augustine)

One of my personal goals for this year was to read more books! While this may seem like an unimpressive goal, for the last 4 years, as an over-involved, too often say "yes" college super hero (ok...well some days it felt like it!), this goal is a HUGE one! To help facilitate meeting my goal...I made myself a promise, that every time I got on a plane, instead of laying my head down on the tray (what I typically do from take off to landing), I would take out one of the books from my long list of desired reading (many thanks to suggestions from friends & family) and I would read! So far, I have been pretty proud of myself, as I am now well into my 4th book since my travels began. I thought I'd take this opportunity to share with you all, in the hopes that one or more of these books might appeal to you in your "free" time...happy reading!

- "Eat, Pray, Love" (Elizabeth Gilbert)
I started this book LAST summer, and made it through section one, which takes place in Italy. I picked it up again when I began my travels this August, and conquered the remaining sections, set in India & Indonesia. This was a great read for a traveler, and someone like me, who deep downs wants to live a yoga lifestyle full of health and genuine happiness brought on by peace and good thoughts. Gilbert's style is so entertaining and genuine, and having been to India, made this book all the more special to me. It offers up creative reflection on happiness, work, and independence, and was a refreshing read as I traveled across the country.

- "I Heart Recruitment: The Eight Steps to Limitless Possibilities for Sororities"
This was my first "industry" read, as a sorority/fraternity professional. Written by two of the talented members of Phired Up, this book clearly discussed effective techniques for recruiting new members that didn't rely on catchy door songs and Broadway-worthy skits. Throughout my travels, I have seen recruitment styles that span the range from frills to no frills, and budgets ranging from $200 to $15000! "I Heart Recruitment" also kept me page turning as I related so much of it to what I learned in my professional selling course in college (thank you Angie Davis!). It's a good moment when you can bridge that gap from class content to real world application!

- "The Shack" (William P. Young)
This book came highly recommended by my future parents-in-law...so going into it, I had high expectations for how it would redefine my faith! For having never heard of it before, I was shocked to see it on the Best Sellers shelf in an airport bookstore, but I picked it up and began reading. Let me say...this book WILL redefine your faith. While that means something different for every reader, it will shake the way you understand love, forgiveness, the Trinity, a relationship with God/Christ/the Holy Spirit, healing, pain/tragedy, and the importance of family & friends. This book was launched on a $200 marketing budget, and has simply soared through word of mouth and sharing the book with others. I would recommend this book to anyone...in fact I would almost insist that each of you read it as soon as you have a chance!

- "The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference" (Malcolm Gladwell)
I'm currently reading, "The Tipping Point," by the same author who wrote "Blink" and "Outliers." While this is more of a business book, bridging the gap between an industry read and a pure pleasure book, it does read very easily, and brings in a lot of interesting examples from all sectors of life. The book examines how epidemics start, but also how fashion trends or word of mouth news can spread...the point at which it becomes "world news" Gladwell refers to as "The Tipping Point." I think I chose this one of his three because I've been shocked to see what an impact I can have on a chapter in just a few short days. Not that I believe my impression has worldly implications on the women I work with at all, and I would not be able to do my work if it weren't for the glory of God, but I think I've been really surprised to see just how much I can accomplish and how many results I can see before I even leave the chapter.


I am loving my travels, my personal growth, my professional observations and opportunities, and most of all, each of the people I get to work with every day. God is good! Miss and love you all!

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

"Oh the places you'll go!"

I have been able to travel to some pretty amazing places already in my LDC experience, but I have to say that Bozeman, MT (where I've spent this week) is one of the most beautiful places on Earth! There's something about looking out your window at the mountains that more strongly reminds you of the beauty of God's creation. I am convinced that Weston and I will have to vacation here in the summer at some point (I may not love MT as much when it's 42 degrees below zero!) to relive this awesome scenery! I have had such a pleasant visit here with the women of MT Alpha. They are great hostesses, complete with a lovely house full of Pi Phi surprises. One treasure of course being Eve, their house mother, who is from Ireland and refers to the Pi Phi women as her "darlings!" It's good to visit places that make you feel at home...love and miss you all!

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Pi Phi on the brain.....

So I could have corrected my last post, but instead I thought I'd point out that I wrote ..."in 7 Pi Phi states." Pi Phi states?!? I've got Pi Phi on the brain!

Happy One Month Anniversary to Me!

So today marks officially one month since I embarked on my travels. I thought a little recap would be in order. In the last month...

- I have visited 7 Pi Phi Chapters in 7 different Pi Phi states
- I have been in 6 different airports (but a total of 11 times)
- I have helped recruit and pledge over 120 new Pi Phi angels
- I have had over 40 meetings with officers, alumnae, and Greek advisors
- I've slept in 6 sorority houses and 1 Best Western hotel
- I've learned how to use wrinkle releaser
- I've learned how to iron without an ironing board
- I've learned to count lifting my suitcases as a workout
- I've learned when to plant seeds (and when to sit back and watch things grow)
- I've only had one woman cry on me and so many more smile for me
- I've told my Paris engagement story over 25 times and showed a picture of my wedding dress at least 10 times (the pleasure of working with sorority sisters!)
- I've sent over 15 cards/letters/postcards to friends and family
- I've thought about, prayed for, and missed each of you more times than I can count!!

Happy 9/9/09 everyone...love and miss you all!

Sunday, September 6, 2009

I Spend all my time in airports and on college campuses...I'm totally getting the flu!


It's so true that the only thing worse than being sick is being sick away from home...alone. Luckily, when I woke up today feeling like I'd been run over by a truck, I had a sweet chapter president willing to take care of me all day. A definite benefit of working for an organization with ties much deeper than professional ones. Yes...the little sleep and constant being around germs has caught up to me and taken over even this super strong immune system. I'm hoping that it will only last a day or two, because taking days "off" just doesn't work well in my position, but as my boss reminded me this morning, I have to take care of myself before I can take care of my work. Lesson learned! Love and miss you all.

Monday, August 31, 2009

For those of you without Facebook...

So I post all of my visit photos on Facebook, but for those of you without, I thought I'd try the slideshow thing (I learned how to do this over the phone with my future sister-in-law who's the real expert) to share them...more to come as I go along!












Sunday, August 30, 2009

An unexpected blessing at Gate A30



When I arrived at DFW last Wednesday afternoon in preparation for my Dallas to Denver (and then on to Laramie) flight, I expected long lines, a hike to my gate, and a typical wait in the airport where I catch up on personal phone calls, emails, and maybe grab an over-priced snack. However, God had a different plan for me on Wednesday. I was pleasantly surprised as I walked in, walked right up to the counter, checked my bags with no delay, and went right through a line-free security. As if that wasn't wonderful enough, I was surprised to see my gate waiting immediately for me on the other side of security...how convenient! What drew my attention away from that pleasant surprise however, was something I had never seen before. At Gate A30, just one to the right of my own, were approximately 200 men and women in Army uniforms, and a very Patriotic decorated gate. Never in my life had I seen something like this, and it literally brought tears to my eyes (the first of a few times in this one airport visit). Using my best observation skills, I deducted that these brave men and women would be leaving Dallas, and not returning for a while. Because, for every uniformed soldier, there was a spouse or significant other and several cute children clinging tightly to their brave mother/father/husband/wife/fiance, etc. Literally, significant others were hanging on to the arms of their loved ones and for the next 30 minutes while I sat there, never let go. I was so touched by this scene, a true blessing from God put right in front of my eyes. The first thought that crossed my mind was to walk up to someone and thank them for what they were about to go do. Not wanting to disrupt the beautiful and touching life moments going on however, I instead sunk down in a corner chair and started praying. I prayed for each one of the soldiers, for their safety and good health wherever their courage was taking them. I prayed for their families that God would keep them comforted and safe at home while their loved ones were away. And I prayed that when the time came, each one would be brought back to Gate A31 for a tearful, but much more joyful reunion. What happened next amazed me even more, as I wasn't expecting it at all. The brave men and women in uniform began giving those final goodbye kisses and proceeding on to the plane, as their names were announced by a uniformed officer on the airline speaker. As they made their way towards the plane, they were greeted by generous USO volunteers who wanted to shake their hands, thank them, and send them off with snacks, magazines, and other simple items that would soon be considered commodities. I had no idea that this was what USO volunteers did. I mean, I had seen the USO lounges in the airport, but until this moment had never really gotten it. This is what I want to do! Put in front of my eyes by our Heavenly Father himself, I saw a volunteer opportunity that I am so looking forward to embracing someday soon. This experience at Gate A30 brought tears to my eyes, and goosebumps to my arms, over and over again. When the men and women had all boarded the plane and the doors had been closed and the Patriotic mass began to dissipate, I realized that I am so blessed. I realized that although I fought back tears when I left three weeks ago, I was headed off (by choice) to comfortable sorority houses where I would be showered with gifts and luxuries, and be able to talk to my loved ones whenever I wanted by phone, email, text, Skype...whatever! It was a huge reality reminder that God is good and my life is so full of blessings. All this...when I expected long security lines and over-priced snacks. Love & miss you all o:-)

Monday, August 24, 2009

The 80s were awesome...and so is my job!


I am absolutely in love with the women of TX Epsilon...and once again, will be sad to leave a visit! However, the next one always holds a new adventure, and God always has new friends in place for me it seems. I have seen so much passion and pride in these ladies...I even got to be a part of their chapter brag Sunday night (hence the picture). Just another day at work..."workin it with Pi Phi!" Moments like those make me SO grateful for a job that makes me SO happy! Yes, it gets tiring sometimes staying up until 1 am entering scores, just to make sure our invite lists are in on time, but I would do ANYTHING for these collegians. My job is so rewarding, I just feel so blessed! I am taking away so many professional lessons and skills already, and I'm only on my third visit! It's so neat how not one day is the same as the last, and I'm never quite sure what the next one will bring. Miss and love you all...until then, put on some neon, and SMILE! xoxo...C

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Livin' Out of My Suitcase

"It's been so long since I've seen your face
Or felt a part of this human race
I've been living out of this here suitcase
For way too long"
(Zac Brown Band "Jolene")

One of the hardest parts about traveling, I've discovered so far, is that along the way, you don't see anyone that isn't a stranger. Don't get me wrong...I've met some amazing women, and formed some very special bonds with them, but I have not been around anyone who's known me longer than a few days, which is very tough. You don't realize how nice it is to be around someone who knows your story, knows what makes you laugh, and appreciates you for all your little quirks. Really makes me appreciate my friends and family. I have been fortunate enough here in TX to see a few old friends from TCU. I got to relax outside on the historic square with a great glass of Riesling and my "big" (big sis in Pi Phi) from TCU, which was great! Sunday, I'm having dinner with an old friend, Cameron, whom I haven't seen since sophomore year. I do miss all of you though...you are truly irreplaceable. Love to all...c

Saturday, August 15, 2009

You Had Me From "Halo"


Before I began this job...I made the hypothesis that traveling around the country meeting a lot of women would further increase my faith in the idea that the older I get, the smaller the world gets. It's only my second visit, and I've already been impressed by people who have known where Drury is! or even more, woman from Starkville, MS with family in Springfield, MO (which shouldn't surprise me since I have "extended family-in-law" in Starkville!). Even funnier, are the Pi Phis I've encountered that remind me SO much of other Pi Phis I already know. It's crazy how much these women remind me of friends & sisters from home. I expect this to happen more and more frequently as my travels progress. Maybe it's God's little way of making me feel more at home on the road! Love and miss you all! CMP

Friday, August 14, 2009

Everytime a Cowbell Rings, an Angel Gets Her Wings


In all the preparation and training I've had for this job, I was never prepared to cry when leaving a chapter. However, my exit from MS Gamma today was tear-filled and heartfelt. I really have a love for that new chapter and the women in, not to mention their alumni advisors. When an AAC member took a terrible fall last while setting up for today's parties, the entire chapter took a pause from voting, stood together (holding hands) and lifted up an angel prayer for Angie's recovery...this is why I'm a Pi Beta Phi. The love I have for this fraternity has grown tenfold already. It is moments like that when the late nights are worth it. Although I haven't slept much in the last week, I have seen a brand new chapter produce impressive return rates and recruit some amazing new women! The dedication and passion was so fresh and energizing. It was such a pleasure to work with the officers and AAC members of MS Gamma, and my visit to Starkville will not be forgotten. I can't wait to make a trip down to see their new house next fall, and everytime I look at my little MSU cowbell*, I'll remember this visit with a smile!

* At Mississippi State football games, students ring cowbells constantly for their Bulldogs! Rumor has it that years ago, at this agriculture school, a cow wandered on to the field, and to get it off the field, a fan rung a cowbell...hence the tradition was born!

One of my suitcases fell apart this morning and had to be replaced impromtu....but as LDC Kylie often reminds me, "just roll with it!" That is certainly something this job is instilling in me already! For you Pi Phis out there, we refer to that quality as, "whatsoever things are flexible!"

Love to all...off to the land of the sooners (hope my future fam-in-law isn't too upset, hehe!) o:-)

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Crepe Myrtles Should Grow in Missouri!


My very first day as an LDC, and what an adventure it has been! I left Springfield (after getting to see the new terminal, which is pretty neat...for the Springfield airport!) with no tears (a big accomplishment) and took off for the Memphis airport. In the Memphis airport, I met another consultant from Alpha Omicron Pi which was fun, so we chatted about life on the road, as she was a second year, aka seasoned veteran. Then...I took the bumpiest/most turbulent flight I've ever been on from Memphis to Columbus, MS. I thought the Springfield airport was small! The Columbus airport consists of one gate, one security terminal about 10 ft from the gate, one baggage carousel, and one ticket desk! I was greeted by a sweet AAC member from MS Gamma, and we went to retrieve my bags...only one showed up! I had prepared myself for this to happen, but not on the first day! So we had to wait for the 1 Delta rep to send off the departing flight, and then he came to help me file a claim. However, no sooner had I turned in the tag, that he brought my bag around the corner. Apparently, it had gotten lost on the way to the ONE baggage carousel?!? I wasn't complaining though, because I had my bags. We took off for campus, and I was greeted at the door of the Sig Ep house (which Pi Phi is using for recruitment) by 50+ singing MS Gammas...so sweet!!! It was a great day, and a good dinner "downtown" at a cute college-y place called MugShots. Kylie's apartment on campus where I'm staying is super nice, although I was disappointed to see that although I took a lot of care to use a hanging bag and hangers for all my skirts and dresses...I will still need to iron everything I pull out! (and that Downy wrinkle release isn't as magical as everyone says it is!) Biggest thought for today though...I LOVE the South and everything about it: those sweet Southern accents, the crepe myrtle trees lining the road, the wrap around porches complete with rockers, even the way the alums little daughters refer to everyone as ma'am! It is heavenly...and full of Pi Phi angels! Love to all :-)